You Are HR-ing Wrong

3 Sep 2025
This week, a leaked video from Stellenbosch Municipality surfaced, showing an HR manager allegedly advocating for hiring practices designed to make specific employees “uncomfortable enough to resign.” The fallout has been swift and polarised. But beneath the outrage lies a deeper systems failure - one that affects all staff, regardless of demographic.

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When equity tactics sabotage dignity - for everyone

At openHR, we believe onboarding is a ritual of dignity. Hiring is not just about filling seats - it’s about signalling trust, competence, and legacy. And when HR logic prioritises demographic discomfort over merit, it doesn’t just harm the excluded. It undermines the confidence of those included, too.

The dignity paradox

When the best-qualified candidate is passed over to meet a quota, the person who does get hired inherits a poisoned welcome mat. Their competence is questioned. Their onboarding is haunted by implication. And their colleagues - regardless of race - learn that merit is negotiable, trust is tactical, and dignity is conditional.

This isn’t equity. It’s sabotage.


Leadership failure is the real scandal

For a policy like this to be voiced - let alone implemented - requires more than one rogue HR manager. It signals a breakdown in leadership oversight, ethical governance, and internal accountability. When discomfort becomes a sanctioned strategy, it’s not just HR that’s broken. It’s the entire leadership culture.

Leaders set the tone. If they tolerate weaponised onboarding, they erode trust across every department. And when they fail to defend dignity, they lose the moral authority to lead.

What ethical HR looks like

  • Transparent criteria: Hiring logic should be legible, defensible, and version-aware. If your onboarding script can’t be audited, it’s not ethical.
  • Legacy-aware onboarding: Every hire is a legacy move. It shapes culture, signals values, and sets precedent. Treat it like a ritual, not a loophole.
  • Dignity for all demographics: True inclusion means no one feels like a placeholder. Equity must empower, not erode.

A better welcome mat

If your HR strategy relies on discomfort to drive change, you’re not building a better workplace - you’re just shifting the trauma. Let’s do better. Let’s build systems that honour competence, defend dignity, and onboard with legacy in mind.

Because when HR gets it right, everyone feels invited.

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